Tips for China Adoption Travel.

Here are a few tips I wrote up shortly after returning from our trip. 
Hope these help someone. 

Micro-cassette recorder

Each day record the basics of what you did, who you met, etc. You can do this at night in your room, or even while riding a bus on bumpy Chinese roads (which you will do a lot of. The rides I was on were really too rough to be able to write in a notebook.)

Other options:
Camcorder - just tape yourselves on camcorder discussing each days events. A few minutes a day should do it. We should have done this.  We REALLY should have done this.
Write - this was my plan. I had a small notebook for this purpose. However, writing takes time and you often have very little time. I did not keep up as much as I would have liked and there are names and events that I will never remember now.

Small Thermos:

We bought one before travel, but in our packing rush we forgot it. (It was the only thing we forgot, which is not too bad, considering the short notice we had.) We got along ok the first 3 or 4 days without it. It is possible. However, we were very jealous of others in our group being able to make hot formula on the go. We ended up buying one at the hotels gift shop. We loved having it.

Suitcases:

Everyone says "pack light", right? Well, we did, considering we needed warm winter clothes for two adults and a baby. We had only one checked, 27 inch, bag on the way over. I had a medium sized backpack carryon. Lisa had a "pilot" (19 inch) suitcase plus a small backpack diaper bag. This worked fine for the first few days, until we started buying souvenirs and extra diapers and formula and baby clothes and... 

In China we bought a huge, hard sided, suitcase for about $45. This was just right for all the souvenirs and extra baby stuff we bought.
It WAS pretty difficult for me to handle two big suitcases, a small suitcase, and my backpack at airports while Lisa tended to our daughter and her diaper bag (backpack version is ESSENTIAL here). However, the only choice I can see is to not buy souvenirs and have minimal baby supplies. Personally, I'd rather deal with the extra suitcase.

Tupperware

We brought a small tupperware bowl for washing bottles, nipples. You can live without it, but if you pack with something in it, like cheerios, it doesn't take much space or weight and it is pretty handy to have.

 

Gifts

You've probably heard this before - Don't sweat these. Our facilitator usually took them from everyone in the
group and gave them to the appropriate people in a bunch. The were barely acknowledged and never opened in our presence. The only one I handed over directly was to our notary, who I spent all of five minutes with while he watched me sign papers. For this he was paid $600 US. I didn't really feel such a debt of obligation for this service that I cared if he liked the gift or not.

The one time where I might have liked having something special for a gift was for the orphanage director. This was due to our really liking her on a personal level and believing that she really puts in a lot of extra effort for all the
children.


Pepto-Bismol

Definitely take Peto-Bismol daily.  I took two a day (morning and night), Lisa took three (morning, noon, and night). One day during a group dinner, several people, without thinking, ate a cucumber salad dish where the cucumbers were not peeled. (One rule - never eat unpeeled vegetables or fruits!).  One, and only one, person got sick that night. This person was the only one who was not taking Pepto-Bismol.
Coincidence? Maybe, but I know Lisa and I managed to avoid getting sick the whole trip.

Food

You REALLY don't need to bring much. At least in Nanjing and Guanzhou it was very easy, and cheap, to buy snack foods. Meals were almost always a feast with more than you could possibly eat. Our hotel in Nanjing had a
restaurant with an all-you-can-eat buffet (all Chinese food) at lunch for 38 yuan each (about $4.75). Fantastic food!
We also did one lunch buffet at the White Swan. VERY impressive food, but at something like 250 yuan each ($31) I do recommend eating most of your meals elsewhere when in Guangzhou.

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